My Purpose


Hello all, I am here because I made it through the toughest part of my transformation and that was knowing I’m worth better than I have given myself for years, I was imprisoned and had no chance of escape. I know that I had to change but I didn’t know how and It was mental torture, you know you listen to motivational speakers and you get fired up but then what, what do you do, I didn’t know how to be successful I had no examples to follow. I can tell you that this place I speak of is merciless and it attacks you in every area of your life but today I am free and know my purpose. I know I will spend the rest of my life in service to women like me, because I know the feeling of failure and been paralyzed and couldn’t change things for myself because your mind has held you captive and have no intention of ever turning loose. So you have to be your own escape it’s your job to free yourself and live as you were intended. So I have created this space but I cannot do this alone it will never work, we need each other to build each other up and flourish as women, breath life back into our families and give birth to a new you…You are in transition and have to want the change as much as you want to breathe, so you are willing to do any and everything required to become greatly blessed. God is able



Coffee Shop

images (92)Welcome, Welcome…

The Coffee Shop is a place where we as women under construction come together and build each other up. I know I cannot do this without you and we all need to be encourage to stay focused on our dreams and it’s difficult enough but being alone and not knowing what to do or what the next steps are impossibly difficult. I needed this when I was struggling to find myself, I knew I was ready to change but I didn’t have the tools to do so, here we will support one another and gain the tools necessary to move through our journeys to find what makes us uniquely perfect for the gifts God has given us. Any life stories of inspiration or life strategies that you have applied to bring you closer to your dream can be shared to help others to get to a place in their lives, or the challenges you need encouragement to overcome we are here. I know you know what I speak of when I say that the pain and imprisonment of the mind are real, and we have o shift our whole entire way of being to be able to begin living the life of abundance and happiness we were meet to have. Please share and encourage each other, one by one we will be free… I believe in you… start sharing some ideas and watch the magic happen.

Sweet Cre’me

images (92)Hello my Dears, at this point you should start to feel like a new person, when you look in the mirror you are pleased with what you see feel and doing with your life. You have done the work even when people said you couldn’t or don’t deserve it, you have reinvented yourself. Your cup runneth over, is the Sweet Cre’me of all the sacrifices tears connection disconnections, you have made great leaps enough so you’re able to give back…

Raw Sugar helps you to face the hard facts of giving up old to become new, this was the only way you can have the space you needed to let your vision and dreams live in you, without the toxins that held you back before. You have self-developed a women you are proud to be and help and been encouraged by other women like us, do you know what make you happy, do you know what you want to do, do you know what you want, well let’s go get it.

Coffee Shop was where you shared yourself and learned how to step into your greatness, the women we have worked with so far in the shop has a lot in common and needed you as much as you needed them, so celebrate you are apart of someone else’s victory.

Soul Stirrer was here for you to get fired up and to be reminded of who you are because we forget and lose ourselves and give up on life, but here we found the passion for living as a winner, there is not just one winner we all can win, understanding that everyone

wins are different and what makes you fulfilled and at your best, what allows you to step into your purpose and serve in that way is your win. Now you will get going on acknowledging and living in your abundance, and your cup will runneth over to share with the world. It is not over only a new chapter is beginning, there is work to do the world is waiting for you and your contributions… celebrate, I knew you could and would do it, Thank you for journeying with me and blessing me with your gift. Now go live to the fullest capacity. I love you and always believed in you…


  • It really is mind over matter, motivation needs to be activated by being emotional attached and excited to the aspect of your ideas your goals. When you really are clear about what your goal is or what you want to do in your life you have to see it  and imagine how it will feel, get your emotions involved so the motivation center is activated to thrust you to action.

Raw Cube


images (92)Welcome Welcome, I have to tell you this is a hard place but it has to start here, I remember this place, It was so unkind and merciless but The raw truth was what I needed to understand where I was, I was uncomfortable in the skin I was in, Fist this will only happen if one thing happen, enlightenment has had to already happen because otherwise you would still be wrapped up in your pretty packages or in your cloud of unawareness, believing you have gotten everything you can from this life and contented. Let me just share something with you about those packages you’re wrapped up in and forced yourself to believe your fine because it looks good on the outside, and that’s how you hide from the world and anything tat is going to challenge you to wiggle around and feel something. the packages are worst because you will never get what you need, you will not grow and that package is not preserving you, you are still rotting from the inside out just like the rest of us that have checked out of the race, but you’re not even breathing the fresh air, the wrappers are not going remove themselves they will never give you room to breath, this is where you ripped those wrappers off and join us out here in the world, where it is difficult, and its unfair and you may have to feel a little bit, but you have to give yourself this chance.There is power in confronting your fears, disarming and neutralizing what has caused unproductivity leaves that thing ineffective, drawing it out of the corners of your existence and facing it head on gives you back the power it has held over you.

There are things you know its time to let go and forgive some people you never thought you could and listen it’s not about them it’s about you powering up. The old habits people places and things have to take a back seat, and if it or they are not worthy then they can’t even get in the car, but the things that have kept you bound have to be replaced with the things that help free you. So listen’ it’s you, and you have to throw yourself in unknown territory, things and people that are not like you, where you can learn how to not be what your escaping. When I was at this point I was so desperate, I was choking on my tears, the air I was breathing was killing me, I knew my time was up doing the things I did and the way I did them, I knew it but I didn’t know how to change it, I was clawing my way out of the hole I lived in for so long but there were no how-tos, I needed somebody right there supporting me guiding me through the dark, so I am here to support you in that way. There is power in confronting your fears, disarming and neutralizing what has caused unproductivity leaves that thing ineffective, drawing it out of the corners of your existence and facing it head on gives you back the power it has held over you.I can’t do this without you, please let me support you…I love you and I need you to show me how to be greatly free.

Self-development is key, Hers are some things you can try doing that help me connect with myself, Lisa Nichols offered this suggestion in one of her motivational videos, and I loved it.

get a piece of paper and write these things down and put it on your bathroom mirror so you see it every morning, and you won’t forget to start your day with his practice;

  1.  Your Name, I’m proud that you (7 things)
  2. Your Name, I forgive you for (7 things)
  3.  Your Name, I commit to that (7 things)                                                                                                                                                                             (From Lisa Nichols)images (92)


How Do You Measure Your Self-Worth?

I write about the psychological aspects of business.

If you were going to install new flooring in your home, would you determine how much material to order by measuring the size of the room with a random stick? Probably not. Hopefully, you’d use a tape measure that would accurately help you calculate the dimensions. Yet, when it comes to measuring self-worth, many people use something just as unreliable as a random stick.

We all have some sort of measuring stick that we use to determine our value as a human being. When we feel like we’re measuring up, we feel good about ourselves. But, when we feel like we’ve fallen short, our self-esteem can plummet.

Despite the fact that our measuring stick has so much influence over how we feel about ourselves, most people aren’t even conscious of what they’re using to determine their self-worth. But they are conscious of the fluctuations they experience in how they feel about themselves.

There are many different ways people measure their worthiness, and some of them aren’t healthy. Here are five common – yet potentially hazardous – ways people measure their self-worth:

1. Who You’re Surrounded By

There are a few different ways that people depend on others to give them value. While one person may think her worth depends on how much praise she receives from others, someone else may only feel good about herself when she’s in a relationship.

At other times, individuals feel worthy by surrounding themselves with important people. Rubbing shoulders with rich celebrities or “movers and shakers,” fuels their self-importance. A busy social calendar and a lengthy list of personal contacts helps them feel valuable.

Making your self-worth dependent upon others, however, is like chasing a moving target. You can’t control other people and you can’t please everyone all the time. If you base your self-worth entirely upon how others perceive you, you’ll never be able to receive enough praise or positive reinforcement to feel good about yourself.

2. What You Do

A career helps many people feel valued. Some people are quick to say something like, “I’m the co-founder of XYZ company,” or “I’m a lawyer,” not because it’s what they do – but because it’s who they are. Their career reinforces to them that they’re “somebody.”

Basing your self-worth on your job title is a big risk. A health problem, economic downturn, or unexpected shift in the job market may interfere with your career and lead to a major identity crisis. Even a planned retirement could wreak havoc on your self-worth if your identity is tied to your job title. In the absence of a high profile career, you won’t be able to feel good about yourself if you’ve always measured your self-worth by what you do.

3. How Much Money You Have

We’ve all met people who measure their self-worth by the size of their bank accounts. Sometimes people feel like they just can’t acquire enough wealth to be “valuable enough.” In a desperate attempt to prove their worth, they create a façade of wealth by going deeply into debt in hopes a luxury car or beautiful home will help them feel good about themselves.

While it makes sense to place a monetary value on goods and services, it doesn’t make sense to use money to determine your value as a human being. The amount of money you earn or expensive possessions you own will never be enough to satisfy your need to feel worthy.

4. What You Achieve

Sometimes people want to be known solely for their accomplishments. That person who always brags about her latest business venture may only feel good about herself when she is talking about her accomplishments. Or that person who just can’t stop beating himself up about that time that he failed, might struggle to move on because that one incident completely crushed his self-worth .

While it’s normal for your accomplishments to make you feel good, basing your entire self-worth on your achievements is like building your house on an unsteady foundation. You’ll need to experience repeated success in order to feel good about yourself – and that’s hard to maintain over the long-haul.

When your entire self-worth depends on your achievements, you’ll avoid doing things where you could fail.

5. How You Look

While some people measure their self-worth by the numbers on a scale, others determine their value based on their ability to attract attention with their appearance. The media certainly fuels the notion that “you’re only as good as you look.” Marketing strategies frequently target our insecurities about everything from ageing to weight gain.

If you were fortunate enough to be blessed with good looks, your beauty may serve as an advantage in life. But, a handsome face or a beautiful body won’t last forever. Wrinkles, a middle-age spread, gray hair, or a receding hairline can become catastrophic for anyone whose self-worth depends on their physical appearance.

Feeling Good About Who You Are

The way you choose to measure your worth as a person will serve as a major factor in the choices you make, the thoughts you have about life, and the way you feel about yourself. Know what measuring stick you’re using to determine your value and measure your self-worth based on the factors you can control – not the external events in your life.

When you know who you are – and you’re pleased with the person you’ve become – you’ll maintain a sense of peace throughout life’s inevitable ups and downs. Rather than experience major fluctuations in how you feel about yourself based on your latest success or most recent failure, you’ll believe in yourself regardless.

Measure your self-worth by who you are at your core. Doing so will help you focus on behaving according to your values, instead of chasing the things that will temporarily boost your self-esteem.

Amy Morin is a psychotherapist and the author of 13 Things Mentally Strong People Don’t Do.


Phenominal Women

I know as women I am limitless and what I do will always be done out of love, we as women have to love ourselves again because what we have to offer this world is only something we can do. God has created us to be the most important source of life, we create it we nourish and nurture and we have to have the courage to live again in our greatness.

14 Foundational Verses Every Today’s Purpose Woman Should Hide In Her Heart

Today's Purpose Woman


1. Matthew 6:33 Seek the kingdom of God above all else, and live righteously, and he will give you everything you need.

2. Joshua 1:9 This is my command- be strong and courageous!  Do not be afraid or discouraged. For the LORD your God is with you wherever you go.”

3. 2 Timothy 1:7 For the spirit God gave us does not make us timid, but gives us power,
love and self-discipline.

4. Proverbs 3:3 Let love and faithfulness never leave you; bind them around your neck, write them on the tablet of your heart.

5. Proverbs 3:5-6 Trust in the LORD with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding; in all your ways submit to him, and he will make your paths straight.

6. Galatians 5:22-23 But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, forbearance, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness and self-control. Against such things there is no law.

7. Philippians 4:13 I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me.

8. Psalm 139:14  I praise you because I am fearfully and wonderfully made; your works are wonderful, I know that full well.

9. Galatians 6:9 Let us not become weary in doing good, for at the proper time we will reap a harvest if we do not give up.

10. 1 Peter 5:7  Casting all your care upon him; for he careth for you.

11. John 8:36 So if the son sets you free, you will be free indeed.

12. 2 Thessalonians 3:16 Now may the Lord of peace himself give you peace at all times and in every way. The Lord be with all of you.

13. 1 Peter 5:6 Humble yourselves, therefore, under God’s mighty hand, that he may lift you up in due time.

14. Luke 1:45  Blessed is she who believed that the Lord would fulfill his promises to her

Change Your Mind

I can speak for myself but I know I’m not alone, I have believed what everybody has shown me, I lived in mediocracy and my time is up. It has a face a name I cannot describe but the chains are real if you do not understand by now that your choices and story has to change I am concerned because I will not stay bound and I want you to make that same decision as well and join me in breaking out.


Wake up tomorrow with the Lords grace but also with a new perspective, what makes you happy, can you see your dream go there live there while your life catches up and dream another dream.

Create Your Beginning

There is a fork in the road and the right path is unclear—what do you do? For many people, this predicament seems like a daunting and impossible task, but if you know exactly what it is you want to get out of life there the answer is obvious.

Finding Your Right Path

When you make this active decision to begin your own journey of personal growth and development you’ve taken the first step towards a better and brighter future. Although, your journey is yours to travel alone, there are tools that can help you to get the most out of life.

Inspirational workshops, such as our Awakening the Dreamer Symposium, testimonials from successful people, and books authored by the greatest motivational speakers can aid in improving your relationships, workplace, intellect, and much more.

What Exactly is Personal Growth and Development?

Personal growth and development is a transformational process, in which improvements are made in your physical, emotional, intellectual, spiritual, social, and/or financial state.

This process is often triggered by an important life event that inspires you to improve and empower yourself by discovering where your full potential lies. The result is a more satisfying and meaningful life, which is evident in your relationships, place of work, self-image, and self-confidence, as well as your worldview.

Why Do You Want to Partake in This?

People want to grow and develop themselves because they are unsatisfied with their life and the direction it is heading. To change its course and create a satisfying life, undergoing the personal growth and development process is essential.

Once this process is underway the results are endless. You will find meaning and purpose in yourself that was absent before. Life goals will become possible. You will use your full potential to benefit yourself and others. New skills and talents will be discovered. Old relationships will be strengthened and new ones will be easily formed. All of which will give you a boost in your self-image and self-confidence.

What is The Process of Personal Growth and Development?

Every person is a unique individual and because of this, a universal strategy for personal growth and development cannot exist.

Each pathway towards personal growth and development is a personalized journey. It is up to the individual to figure out which pathway is theirs and where it leads. There is, however, as a set of questions that can help guide you towards your own path…

  • What is your current state?
    Evaluate your strengths and weakness as well as good and bad habits.
  • What is your desired state?
    Examine what it is you hope to improve about yourself and why is it important for you to improve those characteristics.
  • How do I get there? What do I need?
    Determine what knowledge and experiences need to happen in order for you get closer to your desired self. Find resources that are useful towards achieving this desired state. A good example is The Awakening the Dreamer Symposium, which aids in the growth and development of social, emotional, intellectual, and spiritual traits.
  • What is a plausible timeline?
    Make a list of activities and events you hope to experience within a set amount of time. Use them as checkpoints that lead towards your goal.

The Awakening the Dreamer Symposium- The Inspiration Behind Thousands of Personal Journeys

A 4-minute introduction to the experience that will transform your relationship to the crisis and opportunity of this time in history.

The Awakening the Dreamer Symposium is an ideal tool towards a successful personal growth and development experience. If what you are hoping to improve involves environmental awareness, social connection, new worldviews and perspectives, spirituality, and a partnership with the earth then this one symposium can help you get there.

The symposium put on by the Pachamama Alliance organization, fights for the conservation of the Amazon rainforest, which is home to many indigenous tribes like our partners, the Achuar. Specifically, the symposium illuminates the predisposed assumption that the habits of the “modern world” have little effect on the environment, which is a gross misconception.

While delivering the hard truth about the cause behind our current environmental state, the symposium also inspires a profound bond with fellow humans and defines what it means to be a global citizen. This state of being that is awakened during the symposium is called “blessed unrest” and acts as a catalyst for becoming an agent of change and bring forth a thriving, just, and sustainable world.

A preview of how personal growth and development is inspired in the audience during the symposium

Awaken the Dreamer with Contemplative Questions

Similar to the questions listed above, the ATD symposium’s framework is based on four important, thought-provoking questions…

  • What is our current state?
    Look at where the planet is today in terms of the environment, social justice, and our relationship with spirituality (or lack thereof).
  • How did we get here?
    Reflect on what actions were taken by our consumerist society that led us into the life-threatening predicament we face today. Examine those unexamined assumptions and predetermined perceptions that everything is disposable. Use transformative learning techniques to debunk the irrational ideas and worldviews that we can continue on our current destructive path without consequence.
  • What is possible?
    Is it possible for us to change our course of global destruction? Yes, it is if we are determined to do so. The symposium will leave you with a sense of hope knowing that change is still possible.
  • Where do we go from here?
    After having been awakened into a state of blessed unrest online courses as well as recommendations for ideas and actions that involve social justice, environmental sustainability, and spirituality will be provided.

Gain Valuable Insight in the Following Areas:

  • Social Justice- Learn how the modern worldview is non-inclusive to other beings outside of our consumer-based society and how this disconnection causes unjust treatment socially and environmentally.
  • Environmental Sustainability- Realize how deep consumerism is embedded in our society and the effects it has on the environment. Learn about what changes we can make in our lives to lessen this effect on the environment.
  • Spirituality- Rediscover the spiritual bond with the earth that the modern world lacks and the necessity and urgency of this bond.

Anyone can begin their journey towards personal growth and development as long as they have the right frame of mind and the right resources.

So I Pray

You made all the delicate, inner parts of my body and knit me together in my mother’s womb.” Psalm 139:14

And here lies the issue: knowing it and believing it are two very different things. So, how do we BELIEVE? How do we believe and know that we have worth; that we are worthy?

It’s an every day fight. We have to fight to know and believe it because the devil is going to do everything he can to bring us down. So let’s punch him in the face! Wanna?

He (Satan) is fighting and we MUST FIGHT BACK. Ephesians 6:10-18

To the Girl struggling to see her self-worth -God sees you!

Power up


If you want it bad enough you will do anything to get there, A pro goes to work. I believe there is absolute, are then one winner we all can and have to win, winning is what that means to you, what completes you, what makes you stronger and more determined than you were before, reinventing yourself over and over and over again only gives you more and more and more conviction.

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